We sort through these platitudes,
the stack of pastel doves and lilies
hoping to find the perfect phrase.
But each grief is particular
with its own mix of sorrow, anger,
pity and regret.
We do not feel the loss the grievers do,
the relief of unexpected freedom,
the guilt of conflicts unresolved.
A clasp of hands might do as well,
a hug be welcome or too personal.
Mere presence may be preferred.
No matter our intentions,
we stand before grief - mute.
Choosing a Sympathy Card by Sharon Scholl | Poetry Fabric Box
Sharon Scholl is a retired college teacher who convenes a poetry critique group and maintains a website (freeprintmusic.com) that donates her compsitions for small choirs. She resides in Florida, USA with a large family including great grandsons.






